Saturday, February 28, 2009
Night gathering
Barbie is one of those "little woman" whose whole life revolves and prioritise round her partner. Since the first day we all knew her, she was forth coming in that she is the sort that will "sacrifice" her friends to keep her bf company. She seriously stated it's her mission to spend as much time with her honey. Personally I found it really adorable of her to be so candid and honest about it. As she has been sooo upfront about it, no one ever hold it against her if she doesnt appear. She is a cute character. Very princessy, with a penchant for nice (branded)clothes, bags and shoes, and alot of expensive bling bling to tag along. Very Barbie indeed. Haaaa. By the way, Barbie isnt even her name but a nick we gave her in office without malicious intent. Its just a term that pop into every's head and it suited her to a T. Being her, she didnt mind one bit either and relish the fact we even coin a name for her. haaa
Anycase, last night was as usual a blast when everyone get together and started yakking. My laugh lines has prob deepen by an inch just surviving from last night. The group as usual never fail to impart some localised "vulgarity" to me. It took me the longest time to figure out why "Dining Wok" and "7" were vulgar terms.
The conversations ranges from so many things and everyone was just pitching in. From our exbosses or rather how Linda scared off our former Belgium boss with her infamous "NO MONEY NO TALK" slamming of the table during pay discussion, to Barbie's dog to helpers...Linda is one funny girl and she always made us laugh with her complete honesty. We said she had etched the worst possible image of HK girls in our foreign bosses mind now and scarred him for life now. Linda in turn retored no what, he gave me wine. He knows the cantonese word asking me to hurry up and leave (wine sound like leave in cantonese)! We laughed so hard! The most heated discussion that night centered on "Dishonest Maids" and how 90% will take liberty with your stuff. Even the most hardworking and honest ones will pinch a couple of hundreds when u aint looking. Sigh. I was sharing how my part time maid is starting to take liberty of my kindness too.....
Barbie also showed us a pix of her beary looking dog. We nearly died from laughing when she honestly confessed she partially bought the dog because it was cute, but also to keep her maid busy. However now she regrets having the dog since it took more time than she expected. Like me, we believe dogs are just dogs and shouldnt be treated as if they are human beings. So her dog trainer was appalled when Barbie drew the line saying she would never call herself "MOMMY" of the dog.
Barbie and I, we believe the dogs are just pets, and should be viewed as one. So no licking on the face, No lip to lip kissing with the dog, No sharing of bed, and definitely no "come to mommy". Jo was so amused and kept laughing at the two of us agreeing with each other about how some people just go overboard with their pets...
Well, the night din't end till about midnight. Ivan had to leave before desserts to pick up his Snow white while the girls stayed behind to chat more. The heart shape waffle is really nice!
Friday, February 27, 2009
Lunch at Agnes B
The main course was alright. I like my lobster and Jo's beef was decent. I had wanted the mussels but they didnt have stock. Must be cutting costs. A sign of things to come..... I was so full after lunch that I cannot stomach any dinner. Must be the cheese.... since I didnt think I ate that much.
The cakes are alittle disappointing honestly. The chocolate truffle slice is way too bitter, rich and lacking something. The mango cheesecake is also a little rich but fared slightly better than the choc truffle. This is coming from a choc fanatic.... so u can imagine. I like their tea offering though - Orange Pekoe. Very light and aromatic. An enjoyable way to spend a day with friends without the crowd.
Vday meal
When it comes to special days like this, I have to hand it to my partner. He is WAaaaaYYYYY much better at remembering things like these than I am. Honestly, for a woman, I am embarrassed to say I dont have any romantic genes in me. Sadly, something just isnt genetically programmed into me. I wonder if I should have been born a guy instead?
We have never celebrated V-day ever because I think its so cliche and I hate crowd. This year he decided to not stay at home. It also happened to land on a sat which is usually our eat out day. So apart from the fancy but disaapointing Italian dinner on Friday, we thought we would try the V-day set Jap dinner at our fav haunt. The good thing about being a regular, it helps with getting a prefered seating. Heh heh... I'm a sucker for things like that.
Dinner was alright. Not overly expensive and the fatty tuna just didnt match those I had in Hokkaido. Oh. I got a rose too. That freaking rose lasted a long time man. I didnt remove the stalk from the packaging and left it in one corner. Up till today (how many days passed?), it's still alive and kicking and bright red, with only a few outer petals wrinkled. I am impressed!
Sunday, February 22, 2009
Akai Ito Episode 10
Thursday, February 19, 2009
The Guardian: Lessons From Singapore
One thing I have to agree, I do love those extra curriculum days much that I found them a chore sometimes in those time pressed days. However thinking back, those days were truly fun! I rem more from those activities days than the drumming dull moments in classrooms.
It was the charity flag selling days that opened my eyes about this society - that some poorer people who are tanned from slaving in the sun whole day, dressed in old and somewhat torn clothes were richer in their hearts to part with their money than those well dressed professional in shenton way, clicking their tongues in impatience, buzzin us off like annoying flies, or ignoring us like we dont exist...
While I often receive $2-5 from the manual labourers, I get 10-20 cents from a well heeled executive. At 13yrs, this charity flag day not only overcame my fear of approaching a complete stranger for a good cause, more importantly, it opened my eyes about all these adults that rushed past me. It's funny how such moments stuck in your head for life, helping me make a resolve never to be like those very people who had once snubbed me.
Anycase, enjoy the short read below from the UK papers - The Guardian.
Mike Baker
The Guardian, Tuesday 17 February 2009
How do you achieve a school system consistently in the top three in the world for maths and science, fourth for literacy, and described by experts as leading the world in teaching quality? Moreover, how do you manage to get 80% of pupils to pass five or more O-levels when they are taught in their second language in classes of 35? The answers are found in Singapore.
I have just accompanied winners of the Teaching Awards on a study visit to Singapore. It was organised by the charity CfBT Education Trust, which has sent British teachers to several countries to see what they can learn from other school systems.
So what did they expect to find? One assistant headteacher from the Midlands expected to see "a very traditional curriculum, rows of pupils, teacher in front, students there to learn". And indeed she did. But she also saw a whole lot more: traditional methods blended with more progressive thinking, and a focus on teaching the whole child, not just on exam results. It gave the British teachers plenty to ponder.
International comparisons are fraught with difficulties; it is easy to forget that what works in one country will not flourish in another. But Singapore has many similarities to the UK. The official language of school instruction is English, there is a national curriculum, and the national examinations are O- and A-levels, administered by Cambridge Assessment.
It was soon clear to the British teachers that there are similar challenges. Singapore is a multi-ethnic, multilingual society. Pupils are obsessed with mobile phones and computer games, and are, as one Singapore school principal put it, the "strawberry generation: easily bruised and damaged".
So why does it work? First, education is the government's top priority. That is not just rhetoric: a country with no natural resources (it even has to import water) knows it lives and dies by its collective brainpower. The ministry of education is very close to schools; as all teachers and principals are civil servants, they regularly rotate through postings to the ministry.
Teachers speak approvingly of the way the ministry supports initiatives with targeted funding. Or, as one former headteacher put it, the system runs on "top-down support for bottom-up initiatives".
For example, there is a drive to boost learning outside the classroom. The government provides funds for school visits, clubs and extra-curricular activities, enabling them to make such activities compulsory. Pupils are regularly graded on these activities, and the grades count towards entry to further education.
In another reform, the ministry announced recently that all primary schools would move to single-session teaching, with the juniors taught in the morning and the infants in the afternoon. This will bring smaller classes, better pupil-teacher ratios, and allow a programme of compulsory extra-curricular activities for the juniors in the afternoon.
Like England, Singapore is undergoing a big school building programme. But there is no disruption while the builders are in, as the whole school decamps to a vacant school nearby. The government maintains spare capacity for this very purpose.
In a reform called the Integrated Programme, schools with more able pupils are encouraged to bypass exams at 16, allowing greater curriculum flexibility right through to A-levels.
One visiting headteacher from Essex was struck by the real stretch offered to more able pupils, the "clear articulation of ideas between government and schools", and the way the whole system not only "talked the talk, but also walked the walk".
Perhaps the real key to Singapore's success, though, is the rare combination of traditional teaching and discipline, and a holistic, child-based approach. In the UK, we tend to see these as mutually exclusive opposites.
mikebakereducation.co.uk
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Akai Itp Ep 09
Friday, February 13, 2009
Dars New Choc Flavor
Nowadays, I buy stacks of choc home since I am finishing them faster than i can blink..not good..not good at all for my waist line....
The wind is exceptionally strong today. Gushing through the house. I hate the enveloping mist too. It's so thick that it completely obscure the peak mountain behind my place. I feel as if I am amongst the clouds.
Not only that, everything in the house felt a bit damp and my sheets are not drying properly. Such fantastic timing since I am washing 2 sets of sheets this week to prepare for my in laws arrival. I guess I have to stick them into the dryer at some point, though I much prefer not to since it wear out the rubber fitting very quickly.. As I am typing this, the layer of mist is descending quickly and looked even heavier than before.
The whole coming week is predicted rainy, warm, sticky and misty.
I am missing my winter months already.... Can't wait for my next Japan trip, hopefully weather will be more decent than HK.
Dinner at Grissini (HK)
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Watch Akai Ito Ep08
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Conversation with my Filippino Helper
Currently, I have a part-timer who comes in once a week to help with the ironing and some basic chores. Frankly, I dont really need her since I'm doing the main chores on my on throughout the week. However my husband who is used to having a helper prefered to have one coming in once a week to relieve me on weekends.
Well, I always believe in treating helpers right and respect them like you would to a friend. So even though she is a part timer by the hour, I didnt mind her taking time off to have her quick lunch -may it be noodles or bread on me. In return she is equally honest and diligent, and I can safely say we got along well.
Last sat, my helper for some reason started this conversation with me. She started off saying she enjoyed working with us, saying if there is no perfect boss then we are prob close to perfect. She shared that she looked forward to coming our place every sat because she get to laugh, listen to music (my ipod selections), and we never hover around her watchin her (No wonder I always thought she never want to leave our place early sticking around till eve). Then she started to tell me about her HK employer.
She is currently upset with her HK employer because the HK woman is trying to reject her maid's leave back to Philippines. Technically, the maid is entitled to go back for a month based on her accumulated leave. However her HK boss said that her brother just had a newborn and she wanted her maid to help with the new born, so the HK boss said she is "troubled" if the maid return home. I was astonished. How could the boss be so inconsiderate? The maid also have 4 daughters of her own and she hasnt seen them for a year, and she really wanted to go back for her daughter graduation. So I could sympathise with my helper.
While working, even in winter, she isnt allowed to use the hot water because her employer said the hot water may melt the water filter installed at the tap! I was like snorting in disbelief! Melt? Then she must be some HK cheapo to buy something cheap and nasty for a tap filter to melt! I mean tap filter are meant for BOTH HOT and COLD water stupid! She also had to hadwash all the clothes instead of using the washing machine because the HK owner said the washine machine is dirty. How ridiculous?! I was shaking my head. If the washing machine is dirty, go freaking get a new one!!!
Then my helper started to tell me how usually she is told she is disallowed to have breakfast until she finished teh designated chores, and she is also not allow to eat her dinner until all the chores are done. WTF?!! And the dinner is only instant noodles that's it, while the HK family eat their own stuff and told the maid not to touch anything from the fridge. No wonder I was wondering why my maid was so happy when i offered food before and she told me she was very touched. I felt like I am supporting some abandoned and mistreated home pet.
I can never understand some people. Why employ a maid if you cannot be decent enough to treat them right? Instant noodles everyday while you eat your fish and meat before her? What is worse is that my helper cannot let them find teh biscuits she bought or they would stop buying stuff for her assuming she can buy food herself with her own pay. I think it is so inhumane. Even if I am only listening to one sided story, I have a tendency to believe at least 70% is true.
Because the HK family also doesnt drink from tap water direct (since they are often discoloured and yellowish), the maid is suppose to fill the water container with the filtered water from the tap. My maid gleefully told me she deliberately filled it with pure tap water instead of filtered just to spite them. When it comes to laundry, she also deliberately misplace some socks and stuff just to piss off the old lady at home who apparently nag at her everyday. Everyday, she would call her other friends to complain and curse her boss in her own language,calling her bitch, asshole etc etc....I laughed at her description (because I am also not the victim) and told my helper she is sooo bad! My helper looked at me seriously and asked me if i really thought so.
I told her it is not my place to comment since I do not live together, and living together often have conflict and frictions and so its easy to get angry. I did tell her that she shouldnt though unless they really torture her or abuse her rights.
That eve, I told my husband, it is scary to have a live in maid. I am "scared" because you really do not know what they can do to you if you piss them off too much. Which is why we are to date, no keen of ever entertaining the thought of having a live in maid.
I'm just thankful I havent done anything to piss her off!
Monday, February 9, 2009
Akai Ito Episode 08 Review
Saturday, February 7, 2009
Em's birthday
Lunch was really good at Tonkichi at World Trade Center. It was my first time there and I was pretty impressed by the serving and attentive service. Em was especially happy coz she had always wanted to try the place but never had a chance to.
Friday, February 6, 2009
Movie: Cape No. 7 (海角七号) OST
Thursday, February 5, 2009
Onsen time!
For reasons of modesty, here's a preview of the tube before my session:)
Playtime in the Snow! Snowman and Fairies!
On our last night, I decided to have another go at making another snow fairy. Yeah, I'm like that in a way. Just have to get it right or it will kill me... :)
Consultation at Japanese Hospital
And oh, the medication work wonders, my redness was gone overnight after the first application!
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
Niseko Food Talk
With our constant nightly ripping of smelly loud farts going for us, I reckon we probably overate every night... (^-^) Who would resist good food?!!!
I was often famished and so I didnt take much pictures. Also, half the time I was skiing and it was too much of a hassle to bring my camera along. For those moments I remembered, here there are.
We had dinner one night at J.Sekka (Hirafu),Bang Bang (Hirafu), Rin (Hirafu) and another 2 nights at the Northern Niseko Resort, which is in Annurpuri. I personally would like to try staying here one time only for the reason it is a ski in/ out hotel to the door steps. However, Sekka lodge is just as good and we prob got a better deal out of ours.
That aside, the hotel's Japanese restaurant "An-Non" is SERIOUSLY GOOD! When we work out the price conversion, the meal is actually comparable if not cheaper than a meal out in a fancy restaurant in HK! Bear in mind we are eating really fresh seafood like fatty tuna sashimi, broiled snowcrab leg, BIG FAT scallops and the buttery tasting beef. Funny how we keep thinking yen is strong but after being here, meals still work out cheaper if u compare it to dining spots of the same yardstick.
At An-nonMy husband said this is the BEST tempura prawns he had ever tasted. previously he had never been a fan because the batter was never light and crispy without being oily, and prawns cooked just right. Here, he actually proposed ebi Tempura twice in a row! Our personal fav were the Fatty Toro Tuna that doesnt taste nor look anything like fish, and the beef which is so sweet and soft. By the time I rem the camera, my beef were all gone in a flash.
For the sake of demonstrating the ratio of how big the scallop was, I decided to "model" my hand for it, and also a very much satisfied diner when the butter steamed scallop is all gone.
J.Sekka was alright but I felt it was more catered to a caucasian crowd and the seafood wasnt as big and fresh as a typical Jap restaurant.
Bang Bang is a yakitori place and supposedly recommended by those ski mags, so i see way too many expats here. Never a good thing when u do not see much Japanese. Dont get me wrong. It's decent and fresh food, but I felt, my money would be better spent somewhere else. Too much hype I think. However, the distinctive FANTASTIC singular dish I love here is their scallop. How on earth they get such huge scallops with all the pink juicy bits is unfathomable.
Rin is a typical Izayaka, family style. The food is alright and value for money, but not exactly spectacular. It's just the produce is sooo fresh that it is almost a sin to ruin any dish. Their tofu salad and grilled snapper stood out the most that night we feasted.